Allow me to be explicit, since blocking you on Dreamwidth and Bluesky and blocking your number from texting me apparently didn't work:

I do not want or need your advice. I do not remain friends with people who take wild misinterpretations of things I have said and use them to publicly shiv me in the back. I hope airing your over-privileged self-aggrandizing "concerns" were worth burning a friendship for, because you have. Do not attempt to contact me again.